How to Pet a Cat

Petting a cat may sound simple, but people who've never spent much time around cats and children should know the do's and don'ts of approaching and touching a cat. Using too much force or speed, or petting it in the wrong spot can agitate some cats, causing him/her to bite or scratch. A good general guideline is to consider how you would prefer to have a stranger approach you and touch you. If you can make clear to the cat that you are seeking permission to touch it, and that the cat ultimately has control over the interaction, you're much less likely to instigate a negative response from the cat.
Let the cat sniff you before you pet him/her, so he/she can become comfortable with you. Extend a hand or finger, and allow the cat a chance to touch its nose to your finger(s). If it shows no interest in your hand, or just stares at it suspiciously, reconsider your intention to pet it. Maybe try some other time when the cat may be in a better mood. Some cats just aren't friendly. However, if the cat sniffs your hand and then rubs its chin or the side of its head against it, or brushes the side of its body on you, chances are he/she is open to being petted